I live with the belief that I am entitled to anything I want. Given that it doesn't involve unfairly taking from or harming another.
This beautiful little family I've got my arms around, I know I completely and utterly deserve and am entitled to all of that love and adoration that we share.
I am entitled to all the love, wealth, abundance, happiness, adventure, creativity and passion I can possibly handle.
Why?
Because it's my birth right. And it's yours too.
For some unknown reason, we are told from a young age that we can't have EVERYTHING. Generally in adolescence this is in regards to toys, play time and food. Our parents obviously do this from a place of love and care, not to shoot us down a notch and encourage us to refrain from reaching for the stars. But it becomes ingrained in us that we in fact, cannot have it all. Period.
So we grow up and we settle. We settle for partners who aren't quite aligned with us spiritually. We settle for jobs that are safe for fear that we may not afford next months rent. We settle for enough money to get us by and we settle for just enough of everything else, because more would be selfish. We settle for a life that teases us. We see these glimpses of people living in abundance and convince ourselves that they are just lucky, they are worthy because they are gorgeous/talented/smart/born into the right family.
But you were born worthy.
You were born destined to do amazing things with your one unique human life.
You can have EVERYTHING you desire.
Firstly, you need to remove the mindset that you aren't entitled. The word itself generally has a negative connotation. Remove that from it. The definition itself says :
entitled
adjective
believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.
And look at it from a purely individual point of view. No privileges or special treatment from other people, but from yourself. That’s where the definition can shift in your own mind.
Now tell me, these people that you see as worthy to have it all, what is different about them to you? Are they attractive? Well, no because not all people living in abundance are traditionally stunning to the public eye. Are they creative? We can throw that away as every living being has a form of creativity bubbling inside of them, some released and some restrained. Are they smart? Perhaps book smart, but I'm sure you know that not every financially successfully person on this planet is book smart. Some couldn't even tell you what 7 x 9 equals without a calculator. Born into a rich/famous/encouraging family? I think we all know that being born into it doesn't necessarily mean you'll succeed, most times it actually can work against you.
So, you've flipped the word entitled around a little. Do you now see it as something that everyone holds inside of them? The entitlement to acquire anything you desire, either materialistic or emotional.
But it's not going to just land on your lap.
You need to get clear on your intentions before you start working towards manifesting that dream relationship/life/job. Because the you and the universe are always watching and having impure intentions will land you in more of a mess than you could imagine.
Lets go through some examples.
"I'm entitled to find a husband so I can have a baby and complete my life"
Hmmmm... I don't know how that will go down in your favour.
"I'm entitled to love because it's my birthright, because I am bursting with love for myself and I know that I deserve to feel the magic that occurs when two souls connect"
"I'm entitled to a brand new Celine bag, so that I can be the envy of everyone on my Instagram"
Sound heart centred?
"I'm entitled to an abundance of wealth in my life, exchanged for my work and sharing my services to others. I will then exchange that energy for beautiful things that will please and excited me"
"I'm entitled to that promotion over Jessica, I've worked here longer and that hussy has only been here 6 months!"
Because that's the kind of attitude that moves you up in your career?
"I'm entitled to the exact job that will utilise my skills and celebrate my passion. When I'm doing work that aligns with my heart, I'll be rewarded in more ways than money"
Do you see what I'm saying? You are totally 100% entitled to all the goodness, joy, love and happiness the world has to offer. But only for the right reasons. So to break it down, my tips are -
:: Flip the word entitled to something that is bursting with positive energy.
:: Set your intentions, write them down, adjust them daily if necessary, look at them often.
:: Get your sweet little butt into manifestation mode.
And when I say manifestation, I don't mean just think, dream and say what you want and desire. Start taking steps to make it happen. Want to find love? Love on yourself so hard that you literally vibrate confidence and appeal, then head out to places where the man of your dreams would be and you will authentically attract the right type. Want a career that fills you with excitement every single day? Start living your passion every single day. So you want to write, write! You don't have to quit your day job, set aside 30 minutes every day to write ANYTHING. You want to act? Join your local theatre group and act. You want to deworm pugs for a living... I don't know what you should do but you'll figure it out. Practice makes perfect. Manifestation + action = increased reaction.
So tell me you beautiful, entitled, sweet soul, what are you worthy of right now? Even better, what do you want to be worthy of? Tell me below in the comments and start living the life you deserve.
